BIRTHDAY GOALS
A few days ago, I celebrated my birthday.Needless to say, I had spent the entire year waiting for it. I woke up elated with full knowledge of what the day was. I updated my social media status announcing to all and sultry about my special day.
Messages of goodwill started pouring in. I couldn’t hold back a smile as my heart swelled with happiness with each message.
For me, birthdays have always symbolized a new beginning.Another chance at living life wiser and better. Turning a year older means more opportunities to grow and learn.
On my Birthday, I decided that my new year will be a daring one. One that will see me come out of my shell and try new things.This decision is reflective of what I’ve been through the past year and it goes to show how one’s birthday can be decisive. Its a day where one can chart a new course of life.
During the normal new year, everyone makes resolutions.Many times they are forgotten by February. I keep thinking, isn’t a birthday more symbolic? It actually means something more than a normal beginning of a year. What are the odds that one can successfully follow through the resolutions they make during this special day?
For one, I rarely have a birthday party. This gives me a lot of reflection time where I get to analyze my past year, what I achieved, where I made mistakes, what I need to improve on and much more. I am not against parties, in fact I believe that they are a great way to celebrate being older. However, celebrating it without thinking of the coming year is like having a wedding without thinking of the marriage ahead. Which is quite absurd. It is therefore best to have some time to think.
During this time, appreciate the far you have come in the journey of life. Reminisce the experiences you have gone through and acknowledge how they have shaped you and what they have taught you. Think of how you would like to move on in the next year, what you want to achieve and then you can set your goals.
I believe that the ceremonial nature of a birthday can enable one to set and achieve their goals effectively. What drives you will be the determination to leave a legacy. You will then be able to say that, for example, on my 20th year, this is what I achieved. This in itself is a lasting motivation.
In keeping up with the fun in birthdays, you can create a bucket list including all the things you have always wanted to try and take the plunge.You never know how enriching new experiences can be. You only live once, therefore, take it upon yourself to enjoy all that life has to offer. Happy Birthday to all October babies!💛